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I have been in this awesome and great country for 5 years now. My question to you is what do Foreign women have that Dutch women don`t have. Vice versa is also possible. Feel free to express your opinion in any way :D

:smoke: Greetz,

Alex
 
No, you's have to say:

'Hey loeder, ik ga je keihard neuken in de keuken'


wat een geweldig leraar. :flower:
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  → als beheerder
only, can we stick to English a little bit more?

if Dutch ppl aren't allowed to speak Dutch in here, the non-Dutch shouldn't either ;)
 
sorry, couldn't resist :x
But again back to the topic..... lets change it a bit...what can Dutch girls do that foreign could never and vice versa... and I want good details :P:P
Well here is what they don`t do....:D

They don`t mud wrestle.

They don`t care.

And they don`t get into it so easily :P
is that what Dutch women dont or what foreign women dont
Laura don`t of course.....:D
 
seems like your face 8)
 
ooooh it`s carpaccio :/










o:)
I think it's better if whomever initiates the date pays the bill.


Yeah, and that's how guys run out of money ;).So I disagree.

If you're going out on a date together you both have to pay! :yes:.
if the girl invites that's fine but a gentlemen has to pay, to me it's just normal.
 
Uitspraak van Airjohn op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 18:43:
If you're going out on a date together you both have to pay!


and no mutual obligations, so neither person will be disappointed! :D

Going out is about having fun together, not about getting somebody to pay through the nose just because he's male ;)

Besides, most Dutch men LIKE financially independant women (unless they expect physical favors in reurn), so you'll even make a great impression!
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beside that,a woman want independent by herself also! For me it`s very important to be that and i also run my own business so earn my OWN money and i am not dependent of a men! :-)
 
no fucking way that i first have to ask my man for some money :/
Uitspraak van verwijderd op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 19:11:
Besides, most Dutch men LIKE financially independant women


I *am* financially independent (more or less, as you know). But I still appreciate not having to worry about paying for a meal. The last two guys I've went on dates with both insisted on paying, and neither expected anything more than a hug at the end of the night. I'm not looking to make anyone broke -- it's just nice to be treated like I'm special every now and then.

Then again, it's probably just a cultural difference.
 
i like the dutch way of 'no mutual obligation'. the women i've dated have expected me to buy everything all the time. well not all the time, but usually. then again, i live in suburbia where many women drive SUVs (and not good at driving them while talking on the cell phone).
Uitspraak van verwijderd op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 22:24:
then again, i live in suburbia where many women drive SUVs (and not good at driving them while talking on the cell phone).


Yeah, I hate SUVs. They're so hard to see around in my little "compact" (normal-size in Europe) car, and they waste energy. Cell phones drive me nuts too. Ninety-five percent of the conversations had on cell phones could wait until the person is at their destination.
Uitspraak van verwijderd op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 19:11:
Besides, most Dutch men LIKE financially independant women


even better, most Dutch women want to be financially independant of the men.
I really dont want my men to pay my stuff
off course sometimes he can pay, buy a gift or "trakteren" (wtf is that in English :/)

but its also vice versa, I want a man to be financially independant of me, I dont want to pay everything, he has to be able to pay his own bills, but I do want to "trakteren" sometimes and buy a present and stuff like that.

that's the only thing that seems normal to me.


Uitspraak van permanent verbannen op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 19:20:
no fucking way that i first have to ask my man for some money


I'd rather die than that I have to ask my man for some money :/
I really dont wanna go that low.
I make my own money and buy my own stuff.
"trakteren" seems to be the word for "treat" in English :)

It seems that we have similar ideas (none of us want to be dependent on someone else), but our cultural standards are quite different on this.

When Jeroen and I were a couple, and I told my American friends how we always either split the bill or would trade off on who paid what, they were quite aghast. They thought he was just being "cheap". :/
Uitspraak van KellyLynn op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 23:06:
trakteren" seems to be the word for "treat" in English


you're great.
I knew it was something like that.

Uitspraak van KellyLynn op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 23:06:
They thought he was just being "cheap


yes, I've heared that a lot
I once have had a french boyfriend at it was exactly the same. I insisted to splitt the bill, he thought I was weird and also did his friends. They couldn't understand that its normal here to splitt the bill especially when you're a couple or the boy is trying to make you his.

Uitspraak van KellyLynn op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 23:06:
but our cultural standards are quite different on this


Yes, it seems that is the fact
kinda funny we have similar ideas



btw, I'm going to take some sleep
I dont feel really well and I;m tired
I'll see you tomorrow here for a chat I guess.
nice talking to someone who has the same ideas for different reasons!
interesting :jaja:
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:hug: Sweet dreams :) I hope you feel better tomorrow.
Uitspraak van Airjohn op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 18:43:
Yeah, and that's how guys run out of money .So I disagree.

If you're going out on a date together you both have to pay! .


What they said lol
 
Uitspraak van KellyLynn op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 21:46:
it's just nice to be treated like I'm special every now and then.


quite understandable, only over here, traveling 4100 miles to see somebody (and almost getting arrested as a possible terrorism suspect the fist time) would count as pretty "special" too ;) (would even rate higher than paying for a meal, methinks)

Uitspraak van KellyLynn op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 23:06:
When Jeroen and I were a couple, and I told my American friends how we always either split the bill or would trade off on who paid what, they were quite aghast. They thought he was just being "cheap".


which would sound soooooooo weird here... after all I'd just bought a plane ticket, took 2 weeks off from work (unpaid)... "and you still had to pay for stuff over there too?" :O

I guess next life we'd better not tell anybody (so it won't look like Cheapskate vs. Gold Digger all over again :P )

ahhhh... cultures, cultures... ;)
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Cheep haha, i think its best thing ever, things are meant to be shared why should everything be so one sided
 
Cultures again... if you don't know any better than that this is the way things are supposed to be, how would you know otherwise?

In some cultures, men have to prove they're "worthy", in others, they have to prove they can share (accept as well as give) ;)
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true, I love canada despite what others may think that we are americas little brother our culture is diffrent here compared to there, we dont "assimulate" people like the US we embrace the cultural values of others and exchange them with our own ya know
 
I know.

Canada is cool B)
and we have hot girls

and only two seasons of the year Hockey Season and Construction season
 
we have the Indoor Party Season and the Outdoor Party Season :D
That's funny -- we have two seasons here too. They're "Sweltering Hot" and "Bitterly Cold". Bleah.
 
Uitspraak van permanent verbannen op vrijdag 17 juni 2005 om 23:57:
we've checked, but unfortunately there was no conclusive proof - DSW


it's fine with me, she's 'Yen' and i'm Willie ;)

Ans she's :X :X :X :X

Amns i'm not, thank god. :)
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Uitspraak van verwijderd op zaterdag 18 juni 2005 om 01:40:
we have the Indoor Party Season and the Outdoor Party Season


that, in fact, is one of the best things about Holland ';)

Uitspraak van AmunRa op zaterdag 18 juni 2005 om 01:25:
people like the US we embrace the cultural values of others and exchange them with our own ya know


I know
Canada is cool
I've been there once
definatly I'm going there again
This is difficult.. I think most women in all countries are the usually the same. When I at home, and go out I end up seeing both sides.. From the really hot to not so hot. I like the women in Holland because they usaully like they way I speak :) And I think Dutch women look better. I dont know why?? Must be the water? I have a few friends who are Dutch and they are the most attractive girls in the group.
 
yea i think dutch women are mostly more attractive than american women. actually i think dutch people in general are better looking than people in most other places. if i went to a club or a party there, i would probably see more attractive women than i would here. could be that i am biased because of the 'foreign-intrigue' or whatever, i dunno. i think dutch women/people have a better sense of style, too.
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Uitspraak van verwijderd op zaterdag 18 juni 2005 om 22:48:
yea i think dutch women are mostly more attractive than american women. actually i think dutch people in general are better looking than people in most other places. i dunno, just more fit and healthy-looking


You should be in the USA at spring brake.....
 
spring break is unique, though. i'm just talking about in general. also probably more fake breasts here than in holland.
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Spring break = brainless people
Only booze and sex... hopeless... :-(
Uitspraak van *LRH* op zaterdag 18 juni 2005 om 21:42:
I know
Canada is cool
I've been there once
definatly I'm going there again


U better or else, Come see me and my bro play live 8)
 
dutch people can smoke legaly :smoke:

much women in other country's can't :P
mmmmmm smoke, i need a cigerette damnit haha
smoking means your dead! I quit with that stuff since my pregnancy :jaja:
Smoking is well how you see it. Can we stay to the topic though :D Like for example....The diffrence between Dutch and foreighn women... are they shaved, where and how? Do they swallow or not and so on :P

Its so hard to keep a topic going good :smoke:
 
hmm, one of my xgfs always liked shaving (below) in front of me. do dutch girls like to do that? hahaha
Hmmm not all my friend but some yes.... you know its like Burger King....it just tastes better :P